Buy a pack of gold stars make a chart with his name and treat him like the child he is. If he washes the dishes, mows the yard, attends a parent/teacher conference he wants credit and stroking. Doing something for the sake of doing something: They make promises, to you and your children, and when those promises are broken deny making them or, act as if you are in the wrong for holding them to such high standards.
Kept promises:Ī promise, is a promise, is a promise, unless you are married to a narcissist. The narcissist will side with others against you, talk behind your back about you, and all the while smile like a Cheshire cat at you. What else should you not expect from the narcissistic husband? 1. They aren’t by your side or on your side instead, they are, more than likely, BEHIND your back waiting for the opportunity to twist the knife they just embedded there. They end up being the person you need someone to cover your back from! They are worse than the abusive family member and the sleazy bar lunk and you are in it on your own. They all do the same things, exhibit the same behaviors, say the same words, inflict the same passive aggressive pain, follow the same narcissistic patterns all the time, every time. When the chips are down when it is time for them to step up to the plate they just can’t do it.īy “they”, I mean that my narcissist is like your narcissist is like her narcissist is like his narcissist. Ever been hit on relentlessly by some sleazy bar lunk? Bet the narcissist didn’t have your back. Do you have a family member who mistreats you? Don’t expect the narcissist to have your back.
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